I started my natural hair journey without having a clue how to manage my curls or care for my hair. Nearly 15 years later and my curls are poppin’ like pin pricked bubbles!
A little over a month ago, a reader asked me what I did to repair what appeared to be damaged curls. She wanted to know what steps I took that resulted in my dramatic curl transformation from 2011 (the beginning of my blogging career) to now.
Realizing that there may be others wondering how I “fixed” my curls, I decided to share everything I did. Read on to discover how I made it happen.
My Hair’s History
My hair was relaxed at the age of about 11 years old. I maintained that relaxer into my early 30s. Fast forward nearly 13 years, the approximate length of time that I’ve been embracing my natural hair. I stopped flat ironing long before I began blogging but there are some key things that I did that caused me to appear as if I had heat damaged hair, like pulling my hair back in a ponytail very tightly on a regular basis. You can read more about it here.
Reviving the Curl
Hair can be very forgiving but you have to sometimes help it along. Here are the very specific actions that I took to revive my curls:
- Got a trim to shape the hair in layers. Most of my length was retained on the bottom and sides of my hair. Most of what was trimmed was done from the crown area. Notice there are still some sections that have less of a curl. So, the trim didn’t completely remedy my inconsistent curl pattern.
- I started doing full strength henna treatments regularly (this contributed to the temporary loosening of my curls). Then, I stumbled upon Zizyphus when I purchased my henna from Mehandi.com. The customer rep at Mehandi advised that Zizyphus was capable of repairing curls that were damaged. I no longer have a need to use Zizyphus but it was very instrumental in helping to repair my hair.
- Weekly Protein treatments. I can not emphasize how important this is. Protein fortifies the hair. All that nonsense about protein sensitivity is just unfounded. You have to know what type of protein to use in your hair and then it must be used when your hair needs it. In my case, weekly was in order until the curls returned in a uniform fashion. At the time, I used Aphogee Two Step but now I use a DIY Goat’s Milk treatment.
- Deep conditioning every wash day. It stands to reason that this goes without saying but it’s so important to the balance of moisture that it bears saying. Whenever using protein, the deep conditioner is used to create the perfect balance of protein and moisture.. I’ve only skipped my deep conditioning twice in 5 years.
- Wearing my hair in its naturally curly state most of the time. The wash and go is the best way to allow your curls to just be the way they are. You can always do twist outs and braid outs but the more you alter your curls from their natural state, the more they are trained to be that way (causing what appears to be damaged curls). I still do twist outs, braid outs and protective styles (winter mostly). I just make sure I don’t twist or braid too tightly and I don’t usually style my hair in anything but a wash and go more than once or twice a month – except in the winter when I protective style.
- Protective styling with my natural curl pattern. As a continuation to number 5 above, I allow my hair to be in its naturally curly state even when I protective style. For example, I will make my buns into curly buns and my up-dos are done without stretching my hair out too much. At night, I let my curls down so that they can just be. I put my hair in a high ponytail to sleep. (and get this…it stretches the back of my hair nearly straight too! Only the ends are left curly but I can hide that since its in the back at the bottom.)
- When styling my hair in a wash and go, I gently stretch my curls over night by banding my hair (this does not cause any damage). As it’s getting longer, the weight of my hair causes it to stretch so that I don’t have to band it as much for length. Banding helps to reduce tangles but I’m even careful not to do this too often since it temporarily stretches the hair from it’s natural curl pattern.
As you can tell, I was quite diligent with how I’ve been caring for my hair to recapture a uniform curl. My curls are a lot more defined than they were back in 2011 when I first started learning how to care for my fine natural hair. And, while I’m sharing what I’ve been doing for the past five years, it certainly didn’t take that long to see changes.
If you are having problems with damaged curls not caused by heat, or an inconsistent curl pattern, try the methods I shared above to kick start your curl recovery. You will need to employ patience but time heals all
wounds curls. (~says me)
Evolution of My Curls
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